Navigating identity and relationships: the experiences of youth in polygamous families in Madombidzha village, Vhembe district

Abstract

This study explored the complex dynamics of identity and relationships among youth living in polygamous families in Madombidzha Village, located in the Vhembe district. Through qualitative research methods, including interviews, the study captures the lived experiences of these young individuals as they navigate their identities within the context of multiple familial structures. Participants were chosen through snowball sampling. The findings reveal that youth in polygamous settings often face unique challenges, such as competing loyalties, emotional conflicts, and societal stigma, which significantly shape their self-perception and interpersonal relationships. Using a qualitative research approach, the study captures the lived experiences of young individuals navigating multiple familial structures. The findings reveal that youth in polygamous settings often encounter challenges such as divided loyalties, emotional distress, and societal stigma, all of which shape their self-perception and social interactions.

Keywords: {'name': 'Identity Formation, Youth Experiences, Polygamous Families, Social Relationships, Resilience'}

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Ramatswi Talifhani Trevor
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Raseluma Sentawane Johanna
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